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Mother Spared Jail For Plotting Attack On Disabled Daughter’s Facebook Bully

August 23, 2011

A mother who joined a revenge attack on a man responsible for a vile campaign of internet abuse against her disabled daughter has been spared prison.

Sylvia Hooper, 52, was described as a ‘decent and law-abiding’ woman who dedicated her life to her seriously ill daughter Kim Arnold.

But she snapped after looking on helplessly as a cowardly bully sent her a series of appalling comments via Facebook.

She faced a jail sentence after identifying Christopher Berwick and confronting him outside his home in Chatham, Kent.

But a judge – who labelled the messages ‘disgraceful and shameful’ – took pity on Mrs Hooper after hearing they were part of a long-term campaign.

The case is the latest evidence of the growing impact of online bullying and abuse through social networking sites.

Known as ‘trolling’, it sees abusers, who often hide behind a veil of anonymity or false identities, deluging their victims with cruel taunts.

Campaigners have repeatedly called for websites to take swifter action against so-called ‘trolls’ responsible for pain and suffering.

Miss Arnold was sent a series of messages via a false Facebook account that left her deeply depressed, Maidstone Crown Court was told.

One labelled her a cripple and said the wheelchair user should be left to ‘roll down a hill.’

Another message read: ‘Your mother should have had an abortion. She only had you because she felt sorry for you.’

Mrs Hooper realised the culprit was Berwick, who lived nearby, and joined her son Robert and his friend Soloman Taylor outside his home.

Mr Hooper, 19, punched the bully after his mother said ‘hit him’ and Berwick was then taken back to the family home by car.

He was forced to crawl inside and make a ‘grovelling apology’ to his victim while on all fours. At one point he was hit on the chin with a rolled up newspaper.

Prosecutor Neil Sandys said Berwick originally tried to blame his then girlfriend but eventually admitted being responsible.

He said the Facebook exchange was ‘low, mean, base and shameful’ and added that Berwick admitted doing it before.

Mrs Hooper’s solicitor Catharine Donnelly said the comments were ‘beyond the pale’ and told the court ‘none of us would be here today’ without his actions.

Speaking about Mrs Hooper, she said: ‘She is a decent woman who has devoted herself to her daughter. She has led a decent and law-abiding life.

‘It is clear she is a woman who will never trouble these courts again. She was an encourager, rather than a hitter.’

Danny Moore, for Mr Hooper, said Berwick got a kick out of ‘playing mind games with a severely disabled young lady’.

He highlighted how police told the victims there was nothing they could do and the bully was not prosecuted for sending malicious messages.

All three admitted assault but denied false imprisonment and the judge ruled that not guilty verdicts should be entered.

Judge Richard Polden said it ‘troubled him’ that Mrs Hooper had said, ‘hit him’, but accepted that Mr Hooper was acting out of a ‘protective instinct’ to his sister.

He said: ‘I sentence you on the basis that Mr Berwick sent messages that were wholly disgraceful and shameful but then tried to put the blame on his girlfriend.’

Mrs Hooper was given a conditional discharge. The two men were given community orders which included voluntary work.

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    August 25, 2011 2:05 am

    Judge Richard Polden passed the right sentences, in my opinion.
    The Hoopers admitted they were wrong by not denying assault; their behaviour manifest following a prolonged time under extreme stress.

    Sad to say, I have no doubt in my mind that my Brother would do the same, if one of us had been abused in the way the cyber-bully in question did Mr Hooper’s Sister.
    He has always been VERY protective of us, and Mum.
    Mum would not anyway, but also wouldn’t NEED to “egg him on”.

    He’d give them a pasting I wouldn’t wonder – it would not be right, but that’s what he’d do.
    He would be unable to take the impotence of the police and the continuance of the abuse.
    Thank God for mercies, we’ve not fallen victim in that way!
    I don’t want my Brother in jail for battering some low-life amoebic-brained moron.

    Some people can’t bear a torrent of hate and vitriol on a daily basis against their own.
    When the authorites (police, councils etc) get wind of issues like this they say
    “there’s nothing we can do”. How galling – what’s fair about that?
    So they just continue to get away with it.

    I know about noise-nuisance neighbours, forget ASBO, try PSYCHO, they’re demented!
    The police refer you to environmental health, who put a machine in for two weeks, but also send them a letter to say it’s going in – so they give it a rest for two weeks – square zero.
    Little wonder some people look to exact a bit of “balance” themselves?
    Praises be to the sound-minded Judge!

    He’s the kind of Judge we want presiding over all cases of bullying, cyber or otherwise.
    He saw what damage it caused – not cuts or bruises in that case – but always sleepless nights, haunted days, no rest from the permanent anxiety – or he would not have been so merciful to the Hoopers.
    When the authorites have better powers to help the vulnerable by bringing prosecutions, instead of prosecuting the battle-weary for their retaliation – I should like to have Judge Richard Polden pass sentence on those preying on the defenceless.
    It would seem he had hold of the right end of the right stick.

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