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me when a member of my team unleashed my hair from its Platz so that she could help me washing it this is my hair when it is left down to it natural devices do you like it? Not sure if I like it being left down to its natural devices as when it goes poopy after it dries I think I look like side show bob.Do you think I should wear it like this more often?

May 6, 2026

I made when focusing on product creation whilst on Respite Care please come to my auctions to buy necklaces like this one that are in the auction as I have several like this.

May 5, 2026

Wheelchair diva takes up the dance floor in her local music bar/nightclub. This is what the appropriate funding can help us do. Without it we have no access to our Community and are socially excluded and isolated; not by choice, but by just the lack of funding. They only care for funding personal care Assistants, also known as P.As, to provide time to shower and nothing else in our lives. Until crisis. The bare minimum is all that’s important to them not the fact that we are allowed other things in our life. This is why I am fundraising for my Care and support fund constantly, so I don’t have to wait for their permission to actually live a good quality of life where I have less flareups and less illness. People are with me to manage that illness if medical needs arise from it this is living a decent and acceptable quality of my life with FND and chronic pain including neuropathic pain

May 4, 2026

When you want to show your customers your jewellery but don’t have a jewellery stand so you put it on your nosseco bottles to show them what it looks like but then have to put the bottle is not included in the advertisement for the product. It was fun that I got to enjoy the funny moments of life like this because I wasn’t constantly worrying about the fact I am disabled and about how we can mitigate my disability while sticking to hours that don’t meet need it was nice to be me and enjoy the funny moments but this is just my kind of humour.

May 4, 2026

my outfit of the day a couple of Thursdays ago courtesy of cancer research charity shop while I was on respite, elegant charity shop fashion at its finest what do you guys think? Love the colour on me

May 4, 2026

relaxation time including a bubbly bath, electric candles and a lot of time focusing on self-care and relaxation this is the pamper life and the life of having time for self care .

May 3, 2026

immunology that I passed my diploma in a couple of weeks agobut didn’t have the chance to post it this is the life of a determined Wheelchair diva who is determined to have a career in young adult and palliative care specialising in palliative care for people with cystic fibrosis and muscular dystrophy.

May 2, 2026

The joy of breakfast in a queen size bed whilst on Respite Care this is the life of the Queen and her queen size bed.

May 1, 2026

Auction shots of me doing my Etch art of what Not product art to sell on my auctions whilst respite Care.

April 30, 2026

The new style of bracelets I have released on my Whatnot auctions that I designed and made with support from my PA whilst on the Respite Care break attend my whatnot auction lives to buy these.

April 29, 2026

respite Care restaurant life calamari edition you certainly wouldn’t be eating this in a respite care home and these are the things I like to eat as I have different taste like every other human and seafood is for the win with me. They wouldn’t offer that in a Respite Care home.

April 28, 2026

respite Care hairstyles courtesy of my personal care assistant Team also known as PA to do this I had to rely on fundraising and grants to Fund the support I need even though my team can meet my Respite Care support needs of going out with my hair actually don’t appropriately to face the Community and all my medical and social needs.

April 27, 2026

outfit of the day for an outing with Friday club to the pub for lunch on the last Friday of respite Care living in the appropriate Respite Care life and don’t want to be forced to live the inappropriate Respite Care life and our county is awful. I would like know how it Is around the country of the UK if you choose not to rely on fundraising and Respite respite Care grant that are provided or do they actually provide an appropriate Respite care life for you??

April 26, 2026

for Amazon unboxing future events in a previous post today I shared a poster about the Amazon and boxing event which I am planning here is instructions about how these events will work if you are from WordPress for example when you buy something off my Amazon wish list please put WordPress so that I know to add Post series about unboxing here on WordPress if you are on WordPress and TikTok or just Or just TikTok, please put TikTok live if you are on TikTok so that I have to unbox these on our live Platform if you are from just WordPress when it says leave a note to the person you are gifting Put WordPress so that I know not to unblock On my TikTok instead film it for my unboxing 2026 dreams post series over here but the ones that are on TikTok I know too do it on a live over there To say thank you Over on my channel on I will put the link in the Post also coming out today Thank you all for your continued support On my journey of being complex needs adult Who just wants her independence

April 25, 2026

Etch art which I made on Respite to sell in my what Not auction with one of my favourite words I would use to describe myself if asked

April 25, 2026

visiting the arcade and playing on the claw machines this is what Respite Care should really be. This is The appropriate Respite Care life for a young woman 26 years old with capacity but just chronically ill and physically disabled respite Care home is certainly not for everyone who is disabled and they’re certainly not for me.

April 24, 2026

How Does A Blind Person Train For A Marathon?

April 24, 2026

chilling out on my queen size bed in my hotel room with my best friend her to twin girls and just spending some time interacting with my best friend her kids and enjoying their company whilst on the bike Care supported by my Who came with me and lived in so I could spend two weeks enjoying myself thanks to terrible Liverpool funding social services Care across England and the UK need to treat us with a quality respect and give us adequate for Care instead they don’t and try and force residential Respite provisions on us like they are to me right now. How can I stop them doing this? Because this is the best bite Care life I want and the Respite Care life I choose

April 23, 2026

‘I’m Forced To Change My Disabled Child On Toilet Floors’

April 23, 2026

Shopping Hall Part 3

April 22, 2026

From Cancer Research Charity Shop Whilst in Respite Care

Terminally Ill Sailor Happy To Be Alive

April 22, 2026

Shopping Hall Part 2

April 21, 2026

From Cancer Research Charity Shop Whilst in Respite Care

Artist Alison Lapper Aims To Encourage Others

April 21, 2026

Shopping Hall Part 1

April 20, 2026

From Cancer Research Charity Shop Whilst in Respite Care

Tortured For Wanting An Education- Until He Lost His Hand

April 20, 2026

pressure sore awareness especially when it comes to the feet and heels. This was my feet and heels on Saturday a few weeks ago while I was waiting for my pressure relief boots to be ordered for me.

April 19, 2026

A video explaining about my Respite Care story and telling everybody to watch out and stay tuned for my upcoming Respite Care break content as I am going on a Respite Care break from Monday the sixth 6th of April for nine days as part of just being me I only managed to do this from donations that have been given to me through different funding pathways such as GoFundMe and cherishable grants and selling products as a Whatnot seller so stay tuned and please donate to my go fund me. If you can i will appreciate every single follower on my social media platforms including here on same difference as you all understand that The struggles with disability are no joke .

April 19, 2026

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When your ragdoll cat needs attention all the time and let you know when he wants your heated blanket to be put on for him because it’s cold outside and just literally climbs into your bed with you still in it whilst you’re waiting for your painkillers to kick in for your chronic pain

April 19, 2026

bending some of my Respite Care time being auntie on wheels to my best friend‘s twin girls hashtag Respite Care matters hashtag we should be allowed to have the Respite Care life we choose has tuning to #HearMoreAboutMyBestBuyCarer.

April 18, 2026

Project of bookmark making a couple of weeks ago I believe I showed you some of this in the post I made about the workshop in general but this post is just about designing bookmarks the way we want it and making it perfect for me and everybody in the group making it just perfect for them and using their expression and decorating it how they would like exercising their autonomy and their ability rather than focusing on some of that inability caused by disability 

April 18, 2026

Pudding Heaven While At Respite

April 17, 2026

Supported by my own team.

New Boat For Disabled Passengers To Be Officially Named

April 17, 2026

When your care co ordinator tells you that you can get the support you need to go on my respite and you go out and buy the non-alcoholic celebratory drinks with your PA just because you grateful for your care Co-Ordinator and the freedom that she has managed to arrange for you and you’re happy that she’s working with you rather than against you this is what all Care coordination should be but trust me it’s not so I count myself lucky to employ my PA from such a good platform with a Co-Ordinator who understands that her job is to help enable independence

April 16, 2026

Wheelchair User’s Struggles To Access NHS Dentists

April 16, 2026

Ready To Forget The World & Have Some Fun At Respite

April 15, 2026

Deaf Umrah

April 15, 2026

Neon necklaces that I made

April 14, 2026

Made this cute necklace for the store and auction it so on Whatnot. To purchase one of these either by auction (if am live on there) or buy it now storefront, please download Watnot today. Buy one of these if you would like it! Thank you I appreciate and feel accomplished with every purchase

Cruel People Ask Why My Husband’s With Me

April 14, 2026

‘Dancing Is About What You Are And What You Can Do’

April 13, 2026

First student win of the year. I passed my level three end of life and palliative care diploma, here I am proudly showing off my diploma certificate. I worked so hard for them, because we’re disabled it doesn’t mean we can’t achieve. Opinions of funding bodies and local authorities need to change because we can achieve! We need support from them that cost money that they can’t be bothered to invest in us.

April 13, 2026

I am not just disabled. I am a Wheelchair dancer, who takes part in inclusive dance projects. Here is what they don’t realise: the right support can open up a person’s world. Here is me participating a few Sundays ago, when the right support and funding was made available. Even though they only made it available for five weeks while am ill. The reality is: they think that my needs will go away after 5 weeks when they certainly will not. Every time I get a flare up or my condition worsens, I need at least 3 months for rehabilitation, as a bare minimum. This is also for figuring out what my new support needs are for me to still have a life which I am happy within. Just because they and I hope it will go away in five weeks, I know realistically it will not. FND can be invisible until it’s very visible and the person like me is in crisis.

April 12, 2026

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Prepairing and peeling onions for my activity group’s activity yesterday of making pizzas I was able to peel the onion independently – an independent win for me. All my PA had to do was cut the end of the onion as obviously with dystonia knives aren’t safe. This was the independent win for Monday

April 11, 2026

Ragdoll cat cuteness

April 10, 2026

cute little moments that I managed to capture on photo and video of my cute ragdoll cats a couple of weeks ago.

‘Titan Of A Man’ – Tributes To Actor With MND Who Played Richard III In Wheelchair

April 10, 2026

The canal waterfall which I enjoyed watching whilst sitting on the deck it was so peaceful out there on the deck of the boat and so calming especially for my nervous system disorder. My functional dystonia was less while watching this as well as beautiful Something I would put on a postcard if it was a holiday because it is just beautiful

April 9, 2026

Blind Golfer Heads To US Competition

April 9, 2026

Motability Drivers ‘Horrified’ By Compulsory Black-Box Trackers

April 8, 2026

I even whilst on the canal boat got the opportunity to stay and drive the canal boat with supervision from the boat crew my PAs mean and meant that I can participate in opportunities and fully not worry about medical needs arising as my PA is trained to deal with them to the funding for freedom. Why would they prevent the funding of freedoms I do not know especially why they prevent this It’s almost like they thrive on a complex crisis but I’m grateful for my freedom while I have it don’t get me wrong but why are they almost adamant to wait until someone is in a crisis? The crisis should be averted not caused Here is a video of me driving the boat and steering it with a member of their crew ot should be about prevention and not waiting for a flare up to get the support that could’ve mitigated the crisis

April 8, 2026

Action shot of me decorating my bookmark and designing it how I want it with diamantés to represent the diva that I am

April 7, 2026

‘I Adore Her Now’: Mother Learns To Cope With Child’s Autism In A Country With Little Help

April 7, 2026

Watch on iPlayer

Picture of my youngest kitten Zeus and video footage when she was a tiny baby she is now three years old and has settled in as a fairy member of the family

April 6, 2026

selfie of the day from last week where I went on the canal boat and got to hang out on the deck with my PA and the crew for the boat as well as some of my friends and my friends PAs so another day of positivity it was for me last Friday To the canal boat trip run by the Friday club that I much love it’s a day that reminds me that yes it may be a shitty day maybe a shitty month yes you have shitty moment where your body says no with chronic illness but you’ve got to fight for the better days because they do come and this is one of them Challenges there are big boulders you must overcome but if you do that you get to achieve days like this hanging out with the crew taking a selfie of the day outside while chilling with them on the deck of the Canal boat

April 6, 2026

 Happy Easter to those who celebrate it and hope you get an overload of chocolate eggs this year for Easter 2026.

April 5, 2026

Happy Easter bank holiday to all I hope you enjoy my content and have enjoyed it so far this year. Please let me know if there’s anything more of my life you would like to see such as stay in the lives or more.

Many of you may know as I have mentioned before I am a Whatnot seller and recently I have brought out emoji charmed bracelets so please follow me on Whatnot to purchase one of these Whatnot is an app that you can download from your play store or your App Store You using it would mean a lot to me to have my same difference Community over on Whatnot as well so if you like this and would like to buy one like this, please follow me over on the platform whatnot

April 5, 2026

When you make a canvas picture to sell on Whatnot and are so proud of your achievements and proud that you are able to achieve things as professionals have spent your whole entire life telling you you can’t and now you’re whatnot seller proving to them that you can and actually feel like saying to them LOL I told you so

April 4, 2026

designing my own notebook cover for my Wheelchair diva social media platforms notes in my daylight club art class last Wednesday we also did bookmarks too so that we can mark the page that we are working on. We designed the decoration of these all ourselves. I am very proud of mine and I’m right now that we support even though I’m still not 100% I am able to access my Community again with my staff by my side

April 4, 2026

The picture bellow shows me playing the cup stacking game at our Community games and Tea afternoon. I know I made a day in the life, but here is me proudly showing off the cups that I stack as part of the cup stacking game/ challenge

April 3, 2026

This is the videomy dance class. Here I am learning about music, movement and travelling when dancing.

April 2, 2026

Bridgerton Actor Told Disability Could Hold Her Back – Then Netflix Came Calling

April 2, 2026

Bus drivers and the rudeness to disabled people and their PAs like this one: he saw us standing at the bus stop and didn’t even stop there because he realised I was in a wheelchair. Instead he just drove off, as soon as, he realised I was in a wheelchair. My PA have waved him down and instead he just stared her and drove off leaving us to stand there waiting for another bus for one hour. Arriva bus company you need to back up your ideas.

April 1, 2026

A Poem About ADHD

April 1, 2026

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1ArCYmpNsQ/

Our dance version of Follow The Leader, where we all had to all follow each other’s movements in a line; then follow the whole group movements at the end of the line.

March 31, 2026

Rob Burrow’s Father Dies After Short Illness

March 31, 2026

‘Amazingly Inclusive’ Martial Arts Club Celebrated

March 31, 2026

video of me attempting to play the trumpet during the live show during the Friday club show.I am a musician but I tried and participating is what counts for me.

March 30, 2026

Councillor Fights Guide Dog Access Refusals

March 30, 2026

canvas collage of my ideal Friday night treats that would make me feel rich even if I am not

March 29, 2026

A pretty gift I was sent last night on TikTok to help with my ongoing fundraising for my care and support/restpite with the support for my new team over on their if you would like to join it it is called team Gem and just type Team Gem 💎 into TikTok and you can find us live most days until late at night Join if you would like to thank you any future participants of Team Gem 💎

March 28, 2026

The video bellow is the one that accidentally didn’t upload earlier in the week. Here I am enjoying the dancing with an inflatable blow up girl and clearly enjoying it. Participating to someone else may be a small thing, but to me participation really matters.

March 28, 2026

video footage of some of the live performance that I had the pleasure.

March 27, 2026

Blind Patients Ask Hospital Staff To ‘Walk In Our Shoes’

March 27, 2026

selfie video from Friday because I was so proud of myself for getting up and getting out the house despite my dynamic illness because I’m more than just a dynamic illness. I live with chronic illness struggles are real relentless and sometimes you just want to hide under a rock but no I push myself to actually leave my house and join in the Saint Patrick’s Day celebration at my Friday club

March 26, 2026

Airport Staff Blindfolded To Understand Sight Loss

March 26, 2026

me and the performer dancing together and enjoying her act of playing Shirley Bassey

March 25, 2026

Recondition- Accessible Clothes Brand

March 25, 2026

pictures of me and the blowup woman clearly enjoying the party. This was hilarious and I appreciate the performance for bringing interactive blowup props for us to dance with and enjoy.

March 24, 2026

when the performers give you a blowup woman with a tutu skirt and feather bower for you to dance with.

March 24, 2026

Fightback Asking For Advice About PIP Assessments

March 24, 2026

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Images of me celebrating St Patrick’s Day with my Friday group

March 23, 2026

video of me actively and whole heartedly participating in the musical atmosphere of Friday club on the Saint Patrick’s Day celebration that they had for the attendees and the community of Friday

March 23, 2026

playing instruments at the Friday Club interactive concert enjoying just being me and being 26 rather than just being chronically ill.we should be encouraged to be us and supported to do so with adequate funding for the life we choose to lead but now instead our life is limited by limited funding not because our life is shorter because in my case my disability doesn’t make my life short the funding is limited so that limits how much we can be ourselves and live the life we want to and lead it in the way we want to.

March 23, 2026

Dyslexic MP Demands ‘Sincere Apology’ From Trump

March 23, 2026

celebrating the day of an Irish Saint called Saint Paddy by celebrating Saint Patrick’s Day and wearing this rather goofy st Patrick’s Day hat. when celebrating Saint Patrick’s Day with my Friday club friends Co-Ordinator and Community.

March 21, 2026

Mum So Proud Of Deafblind Son’s Eastenders Debut

March 20, 2026

MP Raises Case Of Woman Involuntarily In Care Home

March 19, 2026

Trump Says Presidents ‘Should Not Have Learning Disabilities’ As He Mocks Newsom’s Dyslexia

March 18, 2026

My reality and my story about living with FND and the fight for the support I need in order to be supported adequately with multiple chronic illnesses and being a complex needs adult

March 17, 2026

Dance Centre Aims To Break Down Barriers

March 17, 2026

Paint by number which I proudly sold along side my other canvas art on whatnot last night follow me on whatnot to buy art pieces like this

March 16, 2026

We Might Regret This

March 16, 2026

Proudly showing the camera my Mother’s Day card that I have made for my mum with the help of my PA also last Monday at my wacky wheels activity group which I proud to say I have attended since I was 13 years old and still be attending now as a 26-year-old

March 15, 2026

decorating photo frames at my wacky wheels activity group on Monday

March 14, 2026

Disability Panel Warns Police About Blue Lights Use

March 13, 2026

Rose Ayling Ellis Writes Children’s Story

March 12, 2026

Virtual Reality Headset ‘Life-Changing’ For Visually Impaired Football Fan

March 11, 2026

A Music Workshop with the daylight club on Wednesday afternoon

March 11, 2026

here are some photos of me participating in the music workshop playing maracas, drum’s sticks and creating a song.

we used provided words to create a song and learnt about different tempos and dynamics in music as well as having a go reproducing them.

this is inclusion. People may think that a quality of life is a flashy car or a very wellpaid career, but for me it’s being able to participate in my community, as I did before Functional Neurological Disorder (FND).
I cannot do this with insufficient funding, so here I am trying to somehow make the invisible visible by sharing my story. The quality of my life and people like me depends on funding providers that rely on box ticking exercise. I have a rare FND condition with fluctuating severity, so there is no box to tick. On the other hand, all the difference to my quality of life comes with the right support, such as from their specialist PA team and when my medical needs are met to participate in activities like today it makes up the quality of my life and makes feel like a human being again.

The quality of my life depends on people who make the decision actually caring about me and my right as a human, including the right to dignity, respect and appropriate privacy.

Making Canvasses to raise money. Join me on Whatnot this afternoon or in future sales to buy my canvases

March 10, 2026

first time ever playing Scrabble as a blind person with my PA at Friday Club a couple of weeks echo I enjoyed it trying something new and would love to practice scrabble again soon

March 9, 2026

PAs are support us to have showers or maintain personal hygiene they mean that we are able to try a new things such as why do social services put limits on our capabilities to be able to live the life we want and participate fully in our communities of which we live

you’re not disabled by our disabilities and deal with every day we disabled by funding system that doesn’t want to enable us. It wants to disable us to make us small and to make us feel like we are incapable/inadequate to contribute to the society we live in.Having disabilities doesn’t mean we don’t want a purpose and we don’t want a life. We’re entitled to a quality of life and not just to exist. The Care Act 2014 is supposed to ensure that we as disabled people wouldn’t have to battle for the things we need and we are entitled to live the life we choose. A lot of councils don’t listen to the Care Act and still make us battle for the obvious things, which makes me cross and also makes me smile because you don’t realise how ignorant they are. this is not fair😅😡🥵 and actually makes me proud when I achieve things, like this Scrabble at Friday Club. The battle we have to go through to get there and the amount of self advocacy we have to do as disabled people is just unreal, infuriating frustrating. It’s a form of neglect and is not allowed.

The Climate Change Course For People With Learning Disabilities

March 9, 2026

Relaxing in bed

March 8, 2026