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Shocking Treatment Of Thalidomide Woman At London M&S Store

July 12, 2014

This is absolutely shocking. Mamy thanks to Geoff Adams-Spink for the info.

 

Thalidomide Woman Demands Apology and Accountability From M&S CEO Following Degrading and Humiliating Treatment From Staff At Its Flagship Store

LONDON – A thalidomide woman – with lower limb disabilities caused by the morning sickness drug thalidomide – is urging the Chief Executive of one of the UK’s largest and most respected retailers to apologise and make amends for what she describes as “degradation and humiliating treatment” experienced at the company’s flagship Marble Arch store in London.

Faith Russell-Taylor

Faith Russell-Taylor was born with extremely short legs and hand deformities as a result of her mother having taken the morning sickness drug. On a visit to London – accompanied by three of her adult daughters – she visited M&S’s Marble Arch store on May 20 to do some shopping for her grandchildren.

What followed demonstrates a catastrophic failure on the part of the company to meet the needs of disabled customers. In the course of doing her shopping, she realised that she needed to visit an accessible toilet facility and was directed to the basement. Finding the toilet occupied, she waited for some 20 minutes and eventually asked a member of staff for assistance.

The assistant refused, and said that only a manager would be able to help. Eventually, a non-disabled woman emerged with her child (there was a parent and child facility nearby) and apologised to Mrs Russell-Taylor. By this time, she was unable to contain herself and both she and her wheelchair was soaked in urine.

Having cleaned herself up as best she could, she proceeded to the womenswear department as her lower garments had to be discarded. She used her jacket to protect her modesty. She quickly selected a pair of denim shorts and asked to use an accessible fitting room in order to put them on.

Flagship store – second rate service

The fitting room assistant refused to ask the non-disabled customer to vacate the facility in order for Mrs Russell-Taylor to be able to use it. By now, she was feeling not only feeling degraded but extremely violated. She never thought she would experience such disrespect and disregard from a company that so readily boasts of its excellent customer service.

The fitting room attendant refused to intervene, and informed Mrs Russell-Taylor that, “we don’t get many people like you here”.

Having had to wait several minutes for the customer to vacate the accessible fitting room, Mrs Russell-Taylor entered, put on the denim shorts and wheeled herself back to the attendant. Mrs Russell-Taylor informed her in a low voice that she had put on the shorts and that she was now proceeding to the cashier in order to pay.

At this point, the attendant spoke loudly and clearly in front of a crowd of customers and insisted upon accompanying Mrs Russell-Taylor to the cashier.

“I couldn’t believe what was happening to me,” Mrs Russell-Taylor said. “Not only had I wet myself, travelled quite some distance within the store to reach the fitting room, but now I was being accused of being a potential thief, and I am sure this was because I am a black woman.”

Mrs Russell-Taylor completed her purchase and asked to see a manager who offered her ‘a nice cup of tea’. However, by now, she felt too distressed to stay in the store and returned by taxi to her hotel, the Wembley Hilton. Her trip and holiday plans with her daughters were all now ruined. “All I could do was cry,” she said.

There she was contacted by one of the management staff, Neil Lazenby, who – upon hearing about the incident – dispatched two members of staff to speak to Mrs Russell-Taylor at the hotel.

They apologised profusely, gave Mrs Russell-Taylor a bunch of flowers, a box of biscuits and a £100 M&S gift voucher.

“These representatives assured me that these gifts were not from the company but from themselves,” said Mrs Russell Taylor. “If they had been from the company, I would not have accepted them.”

Mr Lazenby subsequently contacted Mrs Russell-Taylor and her daughter and explained that the company would do ‘whatever it took’ in order to remedy the situation.

The matter was then escalated to Marks & Spencer’s Chief Executive, Marc Bolland. Having reviewed the case and put in place some measures to avoid a recurrence of the episode, Marc Bolland’s office informed Mrs Russell-Taylor that the matter was now at an end. In his opinion, the company had already made amends and refused to do anything further.

Faith Russell-Taylor – determined to succeed

Mrs Russell-Taylor is part of a volunteer network of people affected by thalidomide, assisting survivors in North America. She was born in Jamaica and now lives in Florida. During the last days of her London trip, she had planned to take her three daughters to see Paris and had already purchased tickets for the Eurostar.

“I was so upset and humiliated that I felt completely unable to leave my hotel, never mind embark upon the short excursion to Paris,” she said.

When the Thalidomide Trust’s then director, Dr Martin Johnson heard about the incident, he was shocked by the change in Faith’s normally strong character:

“A vibrant outgoing personality suddenly afraid of going out in public – all because a major retailer does not think it necessary to protect the minimal provision they make for disabled people from their non-disabled customers,” he said.

“I reassured Mrs Russell Taylor that ‘Marks and Spencer are a good store, they will make it up to you’, mistakenly as it now seems.”

Mrs Russell-Taylor contacted fellow thalidomider and disability equality expert, Geoff Adams-Spink. He is now representing Mrs Russell-Taylor (on a pro-bono basis) and is urging the company to do the right thing by her and to undertake a root-and-branch review of the way other disabled customers are treated.

“Companies that are not confident around serving disabled customers frequently make mistakes – but this is an order of magnitude I have never encountered,” Mr Adams-Spink said.

“The letter written to Faith from the Chief Executive’s office is quite curt, mentions a few rather inadequate measures put in place by the company and then compounds the insulting and humiliating behaviour that she encountered by telling her that ‘we feel that our gesture by way of an apology, the £100 M&S gift voucher, flowers and box of biscuits already offered to Mrs Russell-Taylor demonstrates our regret about the poor service that she received’.”

Mrs Russell-Taylor has asked M&S simply to refund the Eurostar tickets and to pay for a short trip for her and her three daughters the next time that she visits London in the spring of 2015.

“American customers are, quite rightly, used to high standards of public service and considerable compensation when companies fall short of providing that,” said Mr Adams-Spink. “What Faith Russell-Taylor is asking for is minimal compared with the sort of awards that an American court could reasonably be expected to make.”

Mrs Russell-Taylor says that unless the company meets her representative and engages in meaningful dialogue, with a view to bringing the whole sorry episode to a satisfactory conclusion, she will have little option but to start an online petition, demonstrate outside the Marble Arch store and take legal advice.

Geoff Adams-Spink has started a petition to the CEO of M&S calling for an apology for Faith Russell-Taylor. I’ve signed it with pleasure. If you share my shock at the way she was treated, please do the same.

5 Comments leave one →
  1. topsyjkv's avatar
    July 12, 2014 4:13 pm

    Last time I went into an M&S I had to use the disabled loo. As usual it was occupied by a non disabled person. Then trying to get through the door was difficult as the hand drier was just inside the door, not allowing enough room for my chair.

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    Sarah permalink
    July 12, 2014 4:15 pm

    My sympathy goes out to Mrs Russell-Taylor, the response from Marc Bollard was unacceptable. Unfortunately the UK Equality Act is not as strong as US legislation. M&S staff clearly need more disability awareness training, however the vast majority of non- disabled people think it is OK to use disabled toilets etc. Few know or care that many disabled people have bladder and or bowel dysfunction as part and parcel of their condition can not hold on. Having an accident because a loo is occupied by another disabled person is bad enough, but it is even more infuriating when a non disabled person just uses it. As a wheelchair user it is easy to forget that someone who has no obvious disability may need to use the disabled facilities such as those with stomas, urinary catheter users, or large incontinence pad users.
    Living with bladder and bowel dysfunction I try to be prepared for every eventuality, including spare clothes and “I can’t Wait” card., which sometimes gets over barriers with staff.

    Although the CEO response was not good M&S probably went further than stores would have done. Many businesses would not even apologise, I would like to know what M&s is doing to make sure this type of incident doesn’t happen again.

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      alan permalink
      July 12, 2014 5:15 pm

      Need more disability awareness. Nice one. What do you mean that the staff should go to Spec Savers? If staff have no humanity no amount of training, to do that which comes naturally, will ever change anything. You either have humanity, so do the right thing from nature, or you have not.

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    alan permalink
    July 12, 2014 5:17 pm

    I would take the staff off the shop floor because they did not show any common humanity, and no amount of training can fill the void. I wonder if staff were standing around grunting, whinging and whining, customer in general being ignored as well.

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  4. jemmabrown's avatar
    July 13, 2014 10:52 pm

    Reblogged this on HVICC Blog and commented:
    The amount of times I’ve gone to use a disabled toilet and waited ages only for a mother and child to come out when there are children’s facilities right next door!

    I came very close to have an accident only a week or so ago as an able bodied man was in the only accessible toilet for a good 15-20 minutes he stepped out and the look on his face and the way he apologised at least meant he felt guilty about it.

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