the diva under the clubbing lights of her music bar Wheelchair and all to anybody that lacks confidence in this task of accessing their Community/part like just try it and actually you’ll learn that you have more access to life with all mobility aid with carers and PAs or whatever you need to show up with still show up there because I know some people especially if they got disabled glad to all in life think okay I am disabled so I won’t do this I won’t interact with my Community and that certainly won’t open doors up for opportunity. that you have and will actually make your life smaller if you do that so take that as a sign to be yourself and be out and doing the things you used to enjoy or enjoy but don’t want to go out due to other peoples opinions of you and making yourself believe the other people who might not even be thinking that or thinking the same because at the end of the day people may have their opinions but they can keep them to themselves because that does if they are sharing that negative opinion of you if it is a positive opinion by all means let them share it but negative opinions need to be thrown in the wheelie bin and given to the bin men to throw this is your message from the diva for today if you are disabled because I know even though I’ve been disabled my whole life when I got diagnosed with all my conditions the impact that had was huge especially before I got adequate PA hours and had to give up most of my life including volunteer opportunities due to not being able to go out and attend anywhere by myself and you too very much internal ableism by the professionals that make the decision about funding some of them even telling me it can’t be that bad well this is our reality and we just get on with it the best we can but I know changing disability even if you’ve been disabled for your entire life can have an impact due to the places your attending insurance when your health changes for example even if I became stable to a baseline where I could go places is myself again I could never go to the places on my own even with risk assessment of which I have already declared that diagnosis because insurance companies don’t understand that even though the provisions do so I know that sometimes it’s insurances that can change your life forever, even though you think you’re diagnosis can help sometimes it can hinder you in way and with things you weren’t expecting it to hinder so this is a message from the diva for people that are worried about going in the community.